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I want to confront him but don’t want to loose him.
I met a man back in October 2005. took the relationship slow. As it progressed I fell in love with him. We were spending heaps of time with one another as his timetable allowed us. In the January he had to have an operation and as he lives in another state it meant I wouldn’t see him for about 6 weeks. He told me that he couldn’t speak to me for about 2 weeks it is then that I suspected something. A few things happened before but I didn’t pay attention to those. I put a letter in his bag telling him how much I would miss him and that I would hear from him soon. To my dismay the other woman rang me. I was beside myself as I thought he loved me as well. So I decided to do the 3 way split until September 2006 when I said enough is enough. He chose me, which must have been hard for the other party. I do feel for her. Now I live with him and, guess what, he is still having phone contact with her when he can. It is hurtful. And now I have turned into a snoop. I want to confront him but don’t want to loose him. Please help